1. When a group of people laughs, each person instinctively looks at the person for whom he or she feels the most sympathy.
So, if you want to know who a person wants to fuck, pay attention to who he looks at when he laughs with the crowd.
2. If you've asked someone a question, but they've only partially answered it, just wait. If you're quiet and keep looking at that person, chances are they'll keep talking.
3. If you are truly happy and excited to see other people, they will react the same way when they meet you. It's unlikely to happen the first time, but the second time for sure.
4. When you hear your alarm clock ring, immediately stand up, clench your fists and yell "YEAH!!!" p.s Yes, I do that myself, and I advise you to do it too.
5. I learned about this psychological trick on a forum a few years ago. This trick will be useful to everyone who works in the service sector( in other situations it can also help, but in the service sector you just can't do without it). Hang a mirror behind you so that it hangs directly in front of the client. In this case if an angry client comes to you to quarrel, he will see in the mirror, and as a consequence the probability of aggression from his side will be greatly reduced. Because no one likes to look at himself in such a state.
6. Chew gum in situations where you're feeling anxious about something you're going to do, whether it's a public speaking or bungee jumping. I don't remember where I heard this, but I do know that when we "Eat" something, one of our brain functions shuts down due to the fact that "I wouldn't eat if I was threatened by something. Which means I'm not threatened by anything."
7. Pay attention to people's feet. If you walk up to two people talking to each other, and they only turn their torsos toward you while their feet remain stationary, it means that they don't really want you to participate in their conversation. Similarly, if you're chatting with a colleague and you think he's listening intently to you, with his torso pointing in your direction but his toes not pointing at you, it means your colleague wants to end the conversation as soon as possible.
8. People are more likely to agree to do your errand if you ask them to do something easier at first.
9. When you introduce yourself to someone, try to pay attention to the color of that person's eyes, remembering to smile at the same time. As a result you will keep your eyes on him for one or two seconds longer, and your acquaintance will reciprocate your feelings.
10. The physical symptoms of stress (rapid breathing, rapid heartbeat, etc.) are the same as the physical symptoms of courage. So if you are stressed about anything, immediately transform it, convince yourself that your body is getting ready to do the courageous thing and there is no stress.
11. When you break up with someone, that person is at their most vulnerable and easily manipulated because of the flood of emotions. This can be used for good or bad intentions.
12. Putting someone into a state of false excitement. When you ask someone out on a first date, take them to an unusual place so their heart beats faster (like a roller coaster or a horror movie). This will raise the adrenaline levels in the blood. This will make the person think it's because he enjoys being with you rather than what actually increased his heart rate.
13. Many people like to talk about themselves, so ask them lots of questions about themselves.
14. Be honest at all times, and if you have to lie, you will be easily believed.
15. When I worked in retail, I often didn't hold back and was rude to customers. Then I realized that I was too easily provoked and decided to remain as polite as possible, even when they were being openly hostile. Some of them became even more psychotic because of my behavior, and I took advantage of that.
16. If you come to a meeting and you suspect someone is going to speak out against you, just sit next to them. People often hope the crowd will give them protection, but if you sit right next to that person, the issue becomes too personal. It can make him back down from his original intentions, or at least speak out more softly.
17. If your hand is warm when you shake the other person's hand, you automatically become more sympathetic to them.
18. If you smile as broadly as you can, you automatically feel happier.
19. Try to say their names more often in the presence of your acquaintances. People love to hear how their names are pronounced, so you will get to know each other and become friends easily.
Suppose your friend introduces you to his friend named Sasha. After five minutes Sasha decided to leave. Don't tell him "See you later," tell him "See you later, Sasha."
20. Teach yourself never to use the word pas.
